I’ve realised that I am actually pretty bad at giving inputs. But then again, it could be the people I’m with.
Really wanting to have a no secrets group is hard, but I hope that I have at least achieved it with one group of friends. It’s like a secret code between everyone and it is one that is felt not spoken.
Just because someone says there is no secrets does not mean that there are really no secrets. It just probably means that there are secrets, but it’s not important for you to know.
Such is the complexity of humans.
Living simple would actually suffice for everyone. But because we’re such higher order thinking animals, we do things that makes life more complicated than it already is.